Tomorrow, October 19th, marks one year since Paul's accident.
As many of you know, Paul’s life changed forever while he was rock climbing at the Grampians Mountain Range in Australia. Paul was a very experienced, safe and avid rock climber. Climbing was not just a hobby; it was very much the essence of his life. He loved the physical and mental challenge, the continuous problem solving and the sense of accomplishment upon of reaching the top of the mountain. Something unforeseen happened while climbing on October 19th that caused Paul to fall over 50 feet. The efforts of Paul’s climbing mates, rescue crews and hospital staff saved Paul’s life.
In the United States, someone suffers a Traumatic Brain Injury every 21 seconds resulting in 50,000 deaths per year. Of those who survive, 5.3 million Americans struggle with subsequent disabilities. A traumatic brain injury can happen while driving a car, climbing a ladder, playing a sport, riding a bike, or from a random act of violence.
Every 21 seconds a life changes forever.
I have heard victims of Traumatic Brain Injury compare the experience to taking a million puzzle pieces and tossing them in the air. The pieces fall to the ground in a littered mess. Victims of TBI often have difficulty completing everyday tasks that you and I take for granted. They have trouble putting thoughts, words and memories together as they are often jumbled like puzzle pieces in their mind.
All of Paul’s supporters represent a piece of his recovery puzzle. Collectively with love, support and faith we will help Paul piece his life back together. Words cannot express how thankful we are to have such thoughtful, loving family and friends.
Considering the new obstacles Paul faces: cognitive impairments from the brain injury, Celiac Disease, wrist injuries, permanent blindness, and other afflictions, Paul is doing remarkably better than ever expected. He survived the crisis and is persisting through many surgeries and rehabilitation. Although Paul’s life is much changed, his memory and speech are outstanding; he loves to reminisce about good times in college and travels with friends. His mood and general outlook overall is also very positive.
His progress is a testament to the resiliency of the human spirit.
From the words of Christopher Reeves, “A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.”
Paul, you are our hero.
Thank you all from the bottom of our hearts.
The Bailey's
Monday, October 18, 2010
Monday, September 20, 2010
9.20.10
We are happy to share that we have so much progress to report!
On September 9, Paul had procedure called a Cranioplasty in which they placed a Titanium plate in his forehead. The surgery went well and even with a shaved head Paul is back to looking handsome as ever.
The gluten-free diet has resolved all of his stomach issues. A nephrologist found that the thirst hormone in Paul's pituitary gland was damaged from the accident and was causing extreme, excessive thirst. As a result, Paul was drinking too much fluid. A nasal spray was prescribed which regulates this hormone and since then Paul has been sleeping through the night without getting up to wee every hour!
On October 6, he will have another surgery to remove metal from his right wrist. He will have more physical and occupational therapies following this surgery.
With all of this good news, Paul has been in high spirits and energy. He has been calling friends, socializing, joking around and sleeping much less. He's been going outside again for short walks and went to lunch at PF Chang's - which has a gluten-free menu.
Our family continues to be grateful to all of you for your prayers, positive affirmations, donations, letters, gifts and phone calls. Homemade gluten-free cookies and cakes are much appreciated and still welcome!
The Baileys
On September 9, Paul had procedure called a Cranioplasty in which they placed a Titanium plate in his forehead. The surgery went well and even with a shaved head Paul is back to looking handsome as ever.
The gluten-free diet has resolved all of his stomach issues. A nephrologist found that the thirst hormone in Paul's pituitary gland was damaged from the accident and was causing extreme, excessive thirst. As a result, Paul was drinking too much fluid. A nasal spray was prescribed which regulates this hormone and since then Paul has been sleeping through the night without getting up to wee every hour!
On October 6, he will have another surgery to remove metal from his right wrist. He will have more physical and occupational therapies following this surgery.
With all of this good news, Paul has been in high spirits and energy. He has been calling friends, socializing, joking around and sleeping much less. He's been going outside again for short walks and went to lunch at PF Chang's - which has a gluten-free menu.
Our family continues to be grateful to all of you for your prayers, positive affirmations, donations, letters, gifts and phone calls. Homemade gluten-free cookies and cakes are much appreciated and still welcome!
The Baileys
Sunday, August 15, 2010
8/15/10
It's been a while since I've been able to update the blog. We unfortunately haven't had a lot of good news to share lately and we've all been busy taking care of Paul.
Paul has been struggling with persistant stomach issues for a few months now that have been very debilitating. It looks like he may be diagnosed with Celiac's Disease, but we are not completely sure yet. He's been eating gluten free for a few days now to see if his symptoms improve.
He has not been very motivated lately and has missed a lot of wrist therapy sessions. He sleeps a lot and is irritable at times. He also is very sensitive to noise and hasn't wanted to leave the house other than to go to medical appointments. He previously liked to go out to dinner and for ice cream so it's been disappointing for us to see this change in mood and behavior. He continually says he wants to call people back, but can't seem to find the energy do it regularly. Last weekend, Amanda and Will from Warren Wilson and Jeff stopped in for a visit - Paul was in great spirits then - he really enjoys when his friends visit. Kelsey is in town this week and Paul has been enjoying her cooking - he's been a little down since she is leaving tomorrow.
He is scheduled to have surgery to put in a Titanium plate in his forehead on September 9th. He also still has to another surgery on the right wrist. He has many upcoming medical appointments with different specialists - he has a long road ahead of him and we've hit some bumps in the road as of late, but we hope that everything will come together in time.
Please continue to call him or write letters. He greatly appreciates it!
Thanks for your continued love and support,
Tara
Paul has been struggling with persistant stomach issues for a few months now that have been very debilitating. It looks like he may be diagnosed with Celiac's Disease, but we are not completely sure yet. He's been eating gluten free for a few days now to see if his symptoms improve.
He has not been very motivated lately and has missed a lot of wrist therapy sessions. He sleeps a lot and is irritable at times. He also is very sensitive to noise and hasn't wanted to leave the house other than to go to medical appointments. He previously liked to go out to dinner and for ice cream so it's been disappointing for us to see this change in mood and behavior. He continually says he wants to call people back, but can't seem to find the energy do it regularly. Last weekend, Amanda and Will from Warren Wilson and Jeff stopped in for a visit - Paul was in great spirits then - he really enjoys when his friends visit. Kelsey is in town this week and Paul has been enjoying her cooking - he's been a little down since she is leaving tomorrow.
He is scheduled to have surgery to put in a Titanium plate in his forehead on September 9th. He also still has to another surgery on the right wrist. He has many upcoming medical appointments with different specialists - he has a long road ahead of him and we've hit some bumps in the road as of late, but we hope that everything will come together in time.
Please continue to call him or write letters. He greatly appreciates it!
Thanks for your continued love and support,
Tara
Saturday, June 19, 2010
6/19/10
Paul had surgery on his left wrist this week. He had a rough few days following the surgery due to side effects from the anesthesia, but is feeling better today. He is scheduled to have surgery on his right wrist in 6 weeks and then will have a titanium plate put in his head in July to replace where the forehead bone is missing. Overall, he is in good spirits. He has a specialist from the NJ Commission for the Blind that has been teaching him Braille and she says he is doing really well with it. He's been a bit bored lately. He hasn't been able to go to therapy in a while because he couldn't do much with his wrists. The surgeon hopes that these surgeries will increase his mobility and ability to tolerate therapy.
Paul's dog Bear has been with us for a while now. Paul enjoys having him around; however, their relationship has changed since his accident. The other day, Paul told me that he was thinking about sending Bear back to Washington with Joe. He said Bear doesn't acknowledge him or respond to him anymore. He understands that he's a dog and that he is unable to care for him right now, but he's worried that Bear may be happier there where he has the freedom to roam freely. It broke my heart to hear him say that, but Bear appears to have adjusted well to life in NJ. We just hired a dog walker so that he could get out while I am at work. My Mom is going to install a large fence in the backyard so that he has some room to run and we won't have to worry about him wondering into the road while hunting rabbits! Bear and Murphy, my parents dog, have become best buddies - I take them on frequent hikes which they love. I enjoy hiking with Bear, his sense of adventure and fearless spirit remind me a lot of Paul. I feel like Paul's by my side when I have Bear with me.
I hope to post some pictures on here soon. While Kelsey was visiting we took some great photos of Paul in front of the Rocky statue at the Art Museum in Philadelphia. Paul and I plan to attend his friend Kesi's 4th of July Party as long as he's feeling physically up to it; right now, he's really looking forward to spending time with his friends and I'm looking forward to taking him there. He really loves having visitors and reminiscing with friends, so please come when you can!
xo Tara
Paul's dog Bear has been with us for a while now. Paul enjoys having him around; however, their relationship has changed since his accident. The other day, Paul told me that he was thinking about sending Bear back to Washington with Joe. He said Bear doesn't acknowledge him or respond to him anymore. He understands that he's a dog and that he is unable to care for him right now, but he's worried that Bear may be happier there where he has the freedom to roam freely. It broke my heart to hear him say that, but Bear appears to have adjusted well to life in NJ. We just hired a dog walker so that he could get out while I am at work. My Mom is going to install a large fence in the backyard so that he has some room to run and we won't have to worry about him wondering into the road while hunting rabbits! Bear and Murphy, my parents dog, have become best buddies - I take them on frequent hikes which they love. I enjoy hiking with Bear, his sense of adventure and fearless spirit remind me a lot of Paul. I feel like Paul's by my side when I have Bear with me.
I hope to post some pictures on here soon. While Kelsey was visiting we took some great photos of Paul in front of the Rocky statue at the Art Museum in Philadelphia. Paul and I plan to attend his friend Kesi's 4th of July Party as long as he's feeling physically up to it; right now, he's really looking forward to spending time with his friends and I'm looking forward to taking him there. He really loves having visitors and reminiscing with friends, so please come when you can!
xo Tara
Sunday, April 25, 2010
4.25.10
Hello Everyone,
Paul and I just finished a big omelette breakfast. I just told him we would write this entry together because it's been ages since I've updated the blog. I'm trying to recall the date while Paul is singing along to the local classic rock radio station. Listening to classic rock and the Phillies games have become regular hobbies of his these days. I tell him that I have no idea what the date is and Paul states, April 25th, and tells me he wants me to check it to make sure it is right. "You can't write the wrong date," he says, so I check my phone and he's right on. I am glad someone knows what's going on! He also knows more of what is going on in the game than I do and he can't even see it. He knows the batting order and he updates me about what's happening play by play.
Paul has been going to therapy at Magee Rehab three days a week. In between his therapy, he has been going to various doctor appointments and has been entertaining many visitors. Paul is looking forward to his friend Joe bringing his dog Bear to NJ on May 5th. Paul has been in good spirits and has the same fun sense of humor, his memory is great and his main disibilities are his vision and wrists. He is still completely blind and has had various tests at Wills Eye in Philadelphia. We are waiting for another follow-up appointment from his last test. At this point, we do not know much about a prognosis.
Paul would like to thank everyone in Australia: the surgeons, nurses and therapists who helped him while he was going through a rough time. Paul is also thankful for everyone who has supported him through this experience: his friends and parents who stayed by his bedside in Australia and to all the friends and family who helped back at home.
Love,
Paul & Tara
Paul and I just finished a big omelette breakfast. I just told him we would write this entry together because it's been ages since I've updated the blog. I'm trying to recall the date while Paul is singing along to the local classic rock radio station. Listening to classic rock and the Phillies games have become regular hobbies of his these days. I tell him that I have no idea what the date is and Paul states, April 25th, and tells me he wants me to check it to make sure it is right. "You can't write the wrong date," he says, so I check my phone and he's right on. I am glad someone knows what's going on! He also knows more of what is going on in the game than I do and he can't even see it. He knows the batting order and he updates me about what's happening play by play.
Paul has been going to therapy at Magee Rehab three days a week. In between his therapy, he has been going to various doctor appointments and has been entertaining many visitors. Paul is looking forward to his friend Joe bringing his dog Bear to NJ on May 5th. Paul has been in good spirits and has the same fun sense of humor, his memory is great and his main disibilities are his vision and wrists. He is still completely blind and has had various tests at Wills Eye in Philadelphia. We are waiting for another follow-up appointment from his last test. At this point, we do not know much about a prognosis.
Paul would like to thank everyone in Australia: the surgeons, nurses and therapists who helped him while he was going through a rough time. Paul is also thankful for everyone who has supported him through this experience: his friends and parents who stayed by his bedside in Australia and to all the friends and family who helped back at home.
Love,
Paul & Tara
Paul Bailey Jam - Asheville NC Benefit
FRIENDS OF PAUL BAILEY PRESENT “THE PAUL BAILEY JAM” AT
PISGAH BREWERY FEATURING PIERCE EDENS
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
4.23.2010
Asheville, NC – Friends of Paul Bailey will be hosting a benefit to help offset Paul’s recently incurred medical bills. Paul graduated from Warren Wilson College in 2006 and was active in the Western North Carolina climbing and outdoors community. He suffered a severe traumatic brain injury while rock climbing in Australia in October 2009. He was airlifted to a hospital in Melbourne where, over the course of six months, he underwent multiple surgeries and received physical therapy. While Paul was covered by traveler’s insurance, his coverage maxed out at $35,000 which will barely cover his first days in the hospital.
The Paul Bailey Jam will take place on Saturday, May 8th, 2010 at Pisgah Brewery at 150 Eastside Drive in Black Mountain, NC. The Paul Baliey Jam will feature performances by Firefly Revival, Juan Holiday and guests, The Ram and Benny Duo of the Trainwrecks, and Pierce Edens. Food will be provided by Hardcastle Hotdogs and
Laurey’s Catering & Gourmet To-Go. In addition to musical entertainment, there will be bocce ball, root ball and corn hole tournaments starting at 5:30pm, as well as a silent auction and raffle. Doors will open at 4:00 pm with a ticket price of $10 for the general public and $5 for Warren Wilson College students with student ID; this is an all ages event.
All proceeds will go to the Paul Bailey Recovery Fund of Marlton, NJ.
For more information regarding Paul’s accident and current condition, please visit
http://www.paulbaileyinfo.blogspot.com. For more information regarding the benefit and ways you can get involved, please contact:
Ellen Graves – 540.661.8553
Kathryn Skelley-Watts – 440.567.7147
PISGAH BREWERY FEATURING PIERCE EDENS
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
4.23.2010
Asheville, NC – Friends of Paul Bailey will be hosting a benefit to help offset Paul’s recently incurred medical bills. Paul graduated from Warren Wilson College in 2006 and was active in the Western North Carolina climbing and outdoors community. He suffered a severe traumatic brain injury while rock climbing in Australia in October 2009. He was airlifted to a hospital in Melbourne where, over the course of six months, he underwent multiple surgeries and received physical therapy. While Paul was covered by traveler’s insurance, his coverage maxed out at $35,000 which will barely cover his first days in the hospital.
The Paul Bailey Jam will take place on Saturday, May 8th, 2010 at Pisgah Brewery at 150 Eastside Drive in Black Mountain, NC. The Paul Baliey Jam will feature performances by Firefly Revival, Juan Holiday and guests, The Ram and Benny Duo of the Trainwrecks, and Pierce Edens. Food will be provided by Hardcastle Hotdogs and
Laurey’s Catering & Gourmet To-Go. In addition to musical entertainment, there will be bocce ball, root ball and corn hole tournaments starting at 5:30pm, as well as a silent auction and raffle. Doors will open at 4:00 pm with a ticket price of $10 for the general public and $5 for Warren Wilson College students with student ID; this is an all ages event.
All proceeds will go to the Paul Bailey Recovery Fund of Marlton, NJ.
For more information regarding Paul’s accident and current condition, please visit
http://www.paulbaileyinfo.blogspot.com. For more information regarding the benefit and ways you can get involved, please contact:
Ellen Graves – 540.661.8553
Kathryn Skelley-Watts – 440.567.7147
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
3.23.2010
Hello Everyone,
Paul and my parents are home safely. He is currently at Magee Rehab in Philadelphia where he is receiving three hours of therapy per day: physical, occupational and speech. Paul has been improving a lot since he returned home. His appetite is exellent now and he has been asking for a Philly cheesesteak. He spent some time on the phone with a couple of friends last night (Joe Kennedy and Katherine). His long-term memory is excellent. He does not forget anyone and has enjoyed reminiscing with friends and family who have visited. He struggles at times with short term memory and word retrieval, but overall it is good as well. His wrists are very sore and still do not have much mobility, but he is working on that in therapy. We took him to see a neuro-opthamologist a few days ago. He will have a couple of studies completed to determine the damage to the optic nerves. He is still unable to see, but the doctor said his pupils did have movement in them which is a good sign and we should find out more about his visual prognosis in the next few weeks. We will also find out when he will be discharged from the Inptatient Rehab today. When he comes home he will likely go to a day program 3-5 days/week where he will continue his therapies.
Thank you for all of your love and support,
Tara
Paul and my parents are home safely. He is currently at Magee Rehab in Philadelphia where he is receiving three hours of therapy per day: physical, occupational and speech. Paul has been improving a lot since he returned home. His appetite is exellent now and he has been asking for a Philly cheesesteak. He spent some time on the phone with a couple of friends last night (Joe Kennedy and Katherine). His long-term memory is excellent. He does not forget anyone and has enjoyed reminiscing with friends and family who have visited. He struggles at times with short term memory and word retrieval, but overall it is good as well. His wrists are very sore and still do not have much mobility, but he is working on that in therapy. We took him to see a neuro-opthamologist a few days ago. He will have a couple of studies completed to determine the damage to the optic nerves. He is still unable to see, but the doctor said his pupils did have movement in them which is a good sign and we should find out more about his visual prognosis in the next few weeks. We will also find out when he will be discharged from the Inptatient Rehab today. When he comes home he will likely go to a day program 3-5 days/week where he will continue his therapies.
Thank you for all of your love and support,
Tara
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Paul in the News
Many thanks to Kevin Riordan from the Philadelphia Inquirer for taking an interest in Paul and writing about him! See the link to the story below:
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/local/87313792.html
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/local/87313792.html
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Paul's Homecoming March 16th
It's finally official! Paul and my folks will be coming home on March 16th, next Tuesday!
After landing, Paul will be going to Jefferson Hospital for evaluation before transfering to Magee Rehab in Philadelphia for short-term in-patient rehabilitation services. I know everyone is excited to see Paul, but please contact someone in my family before showing up. Paul may not be able to tolerate a lot of visitors right away. I will keep you all posted on his progress.
Thanks!
Tara
After landing, Paul will be going to Jefferson Hospital for evaluation before transfering to Magee Rehab in Philadelphia for short-term in-patient rehabilitation services. I know everyone is excited to see Paul, but please contact someone in my family before showing up. Paul may not be able to tolerate a lot of visitors right away. I will keep you all posted on his progress.
Thanks!
Tara
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
3.9.10 Paul in the Philadelphia Inquirer
Paul's story will be featured in this Thursday's Philadelphia Inquirer! We are honored to have so much support from the community. My parents and Paul hope to be back home on March 16th which is right around the corner! It's not finalized yet, but I should know for sure by tomorrow and will keep you posted.
Many thanks to everyone for all of your kind words, thoughts, prayers, efforts and donations. Paul will need all of your support and encouragement during his recovery process at home.
Tara
Many thanks to everyone for all of your kind words, thoughts, prayers, efforts and donations. Paul will need all of your support and encouragement during his recovery process at home.
Tara
Friday, March 5, 2010
3/5/10
Paul got his Peg (feeding) tube removed yesterday because he is eating well on his own now. He is officially medically cleared to fly back home and we are looking into flights for him and my parents. Our hope is that they will be back mid-March.
We got to see Paul and talk to my parents via Skype last Sunday night. He looks pretty good and was able to make small conversation with us before he left to work with the Occupational Therapist.
I will let you all know when we have a date!
Tara
We got to see Paul and talk to my parents via Skype last Sunday night. He looks pretty good and was able to make small conversation with us before he left to work with the Occupational Therapist.
I will let you all know when we have a date!
Tara
Saturday, February 27, 2010
We Love You Paul Bailey Beef & Beer Photos!!
Click on the picture to view the photo album from the fundraiser. We will be uploading more soon!
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Friday, February 26, 2010
Fundraiser Tonight!!!
THE EVENT AT CAMDEN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL IS STILL ON FOR TONIGHT!!!
SEE YOU THEN!!!
TARA
SEE YOU THEN!!!
TARA
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
2.23.2010
It's been awhile since the last update and I'm happy to report some good news. Paul has been making alot of progress lately. He has started to eat regularly and gained a healthy amount of weight. He was very underweight for a while due to his lack of appetite. The doctors will clamp off his feeding tube for a few days and see if he maintains his weight on his own.
His mood has also improved significantly, he has been pleasant and has been walking to the dining room for dinner and has been cooperative with his therapies.
I recieved this email from my Dad a few days ago and wanted to share with everyone:
Hi Tara,
This morning I made Paul a blueberry pancake breakfast. He ate 4 of them!! He also had a glass of juice. We walked to a kitchen that was outside of his building and he sat there while I prepared it. This morning when we arrived, the nurses said he had not eaten and was waiting for us to come and make the pancakes. (We had talked about it the day before).
Miss you and looking forward to coming home.
Love,
Dad
Hope to see many of you at the fundraiser this Friday!!
Tara
His mood has also improved significantly, he has been pleasant and has been walking to the dining room for dinner and has been cooperative with his therapies.
I recieved this email from my Dad a few days ago and wanted to share with everyone:
Hi Tara,
This morning I made Paul a blueberry pancake breakfast. He ate 4 of them!! He also had a glass of juice. We walked to a kitchen that was outside of his building and he sat there while I prepared it. This morning when we arrived, the nurses said he had not eaten and was waiting for us to come and make the pancakes. (We had talked about it the day before).
Miss you and looking forward to coming home.
Love,
Dad
Hope to see many of you at the fundraiser this Friday!!
Tara
Monday, February 15, 2010
2.15.10
My folks had an appointment with Dr. Rosenfeld, the main neurosurgeon, yesterday. He was away on vacation and not present for the previous meeting with the other specialists. Although Paul was cleared to fly by other surgeons, Dr. Rosenfeld
reported that he saw a small amount of air still present after his review of Paul's scan from Jan. 28. He recommended that Paul have another CT scan and MRI before flying to be safe. It looks like these scans will scheduled for the end of February.
We were not expecting this news and my parents were really hoping to be home by the 26th for the fundraiser.
On an up note Paul has had some very good days cooperating with therapies, having increased appetite and leaving his room to eat in the dining area.
The fundraiser is still on for February 26th at 7pm. Please buy your tickets ASAP. We will have tickets at the door, but would appreciate you purchasing them ahead of time!!
Much love,
Tara
reported that he saw a small amount of air still present after his review of Paul's scan from Jan. 28. He recommended that Paul have another CT scan and MRI before flying to be safe. It looks like these scans will scheduled for the end of February.
We were not expecting this news and my parents were really hoping to be home by the 26th for the fundraiser.
On an up note Paul has had some very good days cooperating with therapies, having increased appetite and leaving his room to eat in the dining area.
The fundraiser is still on for February 26th at 7pm. Please buy your tickets ASAP. We will have tickets at the door, but would appreciate you purchasing them ahead of time!!
Much love,
Tara
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Paul's Homecoming
Paul has been medically cleared to fly back home! We are in the process of making plans for his flight home. I don't have anymore details at this time, but we are hoping he will be back by the end of the month.
Tara
Tara
Monday, February 8, 2010
We Love You Paul Bailey Beef & Beer
Hi Everyone,
If you plan on attending the event on February 26, please have your money in for tickets by the 23rd! We will have a limited number of tickets available at the door, but we hope that you will pay in advance so that we can get a head count on how many people will be attending. This will help us determine how much beer and food we need to provide.
Thanks!!
If you plan on attending the event on February 26, please have your money in for tickets by the 23rd! We will have a limited number of tickets available at the door, but we hope that you will pay in advance so that we can get a head count on how many people will be attending. This will help us determine how much beer and food we need to provide.
Thanks!!
Friday, February 5, 2010
2.5.10
Please buy your tickets by February 19th for the fundraiser. Make checks payable to Paul Bailey Recovery Fund!
Thursday, January 28, 2010
1.28.10 1st Annual 'We Love You Paul Bailey' Fundraiser
We will be holding a fundraiser at Camden Catholic High School in Cherry Hill, NJ on Friday, February 26,2010 from 7pm to midnight. The proceeds of this fundraiser will help offset the costs of Paul's increasing medical bills and the high cost of his medical transport home.
Tickets will be $25.00 and MUST be purchased in ADVANCE of the event. This includes food, DJ, beer and wine. There will also be a silent auction/raffle.
Please send checks with your name and number of tickets to:
Lauren Snyder
1100 Collings Avenue Apt. 3B
Haddon Township, NJ 08107
For information on how you can help or questions, please contact:
Joseph Bailey at 856.952.1045 or bailey@ccgmetamedia.com
or
Lauren Snyder at swimskip20@yahoo.com
If you cannot attend, but would like to donate, please send to:
Paul Bailey Recovery Fund
120 Dutch Rd
Marlton, NJ 08053
Tickets will be $25.00 and MUST be purchased in ADVANCE of the event. This includes food, DJ, beer and wine. There will also be a silent auction/raffle.
Please send checks with your name and number of tickets to:
Lauren Snyder
1100 Collings Avenue Apt. 3B
Haddon Township, NJ 08107
For information on how you can help or questions, please contact:
Joseph Bailey at 856.952.1045 or bailey@ccgmetamedia.com
or
Lauren Snyder at swimskip20@yahoo.com
If you cannot attend, but would like to donate, please send to:
Paul Bailey Recovery Fund
120 Dutch Rd
Marlton, NJ 08053
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
1.26.10
It has been a while since the last update and this is due to a very slow recovery process that is normal with a brain injury. Paul returned to the rehab center following his surgery and has made some small, but significant improvements. His appetite was extremely poor, he lost a lot of weight and he had a serious infection; however, he has started to eat very small portions, his infection was treated and he continues to recieve nutrition through a feeding tube.
My Mom asked me to thank Kesi, Katherine and Denise for sending the music and chocolate peanut butter cookies. He was very excited about the cookies which made my parents happy because he hadn't been eating much. Due to his brain injury, he is unable to tolerate much noise or conversation, but he will listen to the music for short periods of time and enjoys it.
He has been recieving therapy from a specialist who teaches mobility to people with vision impairments. At this time, Paul cannot see and we do not know if his vision will return.
Paul will be having another brain scan this Thursday to determine the outcome of his surgery. It appears that it was a success at this time. On February 8, they will meet with the main neurosurgeon to determine when he will be cleared to return home. Once he is medically cleared to fly, we will be making plans for his flight home and services. We do not know exactly when this will be yet; however, we hope it will be late February or early March.
If you would like to send packages, my family is requesting that you hold off for now unless they are edible because they have a lot of things to carry back home.
We have set a date for a fundraiser which will be a Beef and Beer at Camden Catholic HS in Cherry Hill, NJ on February 26, 2010. I will be posting more information as I get it, but please save the date and attend if you can.
Today is Paul's birthday. Please continue to keep Paul and my family in your thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Tara
My Mom asked me to thank Kesi, Katherine and Denise for sending the music and chocolate peanut butter cookies. He was very excited about the cookies which made my parents happy because he hadn't been eating much. Due to his brain injury, he is unable to tolerate much noise or conversation, but he will listen to the music for short periods of time and enjoys it.
He has been recieving therapy from a specialist who teaches mobility to people with vision impairments. At this time, Paul cannot see and we do not know if his vision will return.
Paul will be having another brain scan this Thursday to determine the outcome of his surgery. It appears that it was a success at this time. On February 8, they will meet with the main neurosurgeon to determine when he will be cleared to return home. Once he is medically cleared to fly, we will be making plans for his flight home and services. We do not know exactly when this will be yet; however, we hope it will be late February or early March.
If you would like to send packages, my family is requesting that you hold off for now unless they are edible because they have a lot of things to carry back home.
We have set a date for a fundraiser which will be a Beef and Beer at Camden Catholic HS in Cherry Hill, NJ on February 26, 2010. I will be posting more information as I get it, but please save the date and attend if you can.
Today is Paul's birthday. Please continue to keep Paul and my family in your thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Tara
Friday, January 8, 2010
1.8.10
Paul had an eight hour surgery yesterday to repair the air leak in his brain. There were extensive injuries to the bones in his face and head at the time of the accident and some of the bone could not be recovered. The surgeons grafted, or placed new tissue, at the area of the leak. The tissue was taken from other parts of Paul's own body in the hopes it will grow new tissue with a good blood supply and ultimately repair the leak. The surgeons are pleased with the initial outcome. Now we will wait and hope that the grafting is successful.
Think good thoughts everyone!
Tara & Aunt Meg
Think good thoughts everyone!
Tara & Aunt Meg
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